A judgment-free way to discover what you're both actually into
Find 10 minutes of private time. Go through the questions honestly. Your gut reaction is usually the right answer.
Once both partners complete it, you'll see a list of everything you both said yes to. Only the matches - nothing else.
No rush, no pressure. Whether you dive right in or take months to discuss, you now have a judgment-free list of shared interests.
Traditional conversations about desires can be terrifying. What if your partner thinks you're weird? What if they want something you don't? What if bringing something up changes how they see you?
This questionnaire eliminates those fears. It's like having a mediator who only shares the good news. You both get to be completely honest without risk.
Thousands of couples have discovered they were both secretly wanting the same things. Others found exciting new territories neither had considered before. And some learned they're perfectly content with their current intimacy - which is valuable knowledge too.
The questions range from tender and romantic to adventurous and explicit. We've organized them into categories like vanilla, accessories, roleplay, and more advanced explorations. Answer what feels right for you.
Remember: This isn't about pushing boundaries you're not comfortable with. It's about discovering where your authentic desires overlap with your partner's. That sweet spot where you're both enthusiastic? That's where the magic happens.
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